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Training Module 110 | The Club's Role in Member Wellbeing: Noticing, Responding, Referring, and Building a Protective Culture

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What This Guide Covers

Community sports clubs are one of the strongest protective structures in Australian life — for many members, the club is their main social connection. That gives clubs a real (and legally bounded) role in member wellbeing. This module covers what a club can and cannot do: how to notice warning signs (including the platform signals that surface them), how a coach or committee member responds to a concern, when and where to refer, and how to build a club culture that protects wellbeing by default.

This module is guidance for community club volunteers, not clinical advice. Clubs support and refer; they do not diagnose or counsel.

Primary audience: Coaches, Presidents, Club Admins, Junior Coordinators, Team Managers See also: 76 Incident Reporting & Duty of Care · 77 Managing Inactive & Lapsed Members · 41 Injury Management · 87 Parent Communication Playbook

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SECTION 1: THE CLUB'S ROLE — AND ITS LIMITS

What a Club Does

• Notice — coaches and teammates see members weekly; they notice change before almost anyone else in that person's life
• Ask — a direct, private, non-clinical check-in: "You don't seem yourself lately — everything OK?"
• Refer — connect the person to professional support (Section 4's referral list)
• Protect — run a culture where belonging is the default and harmful behaviour is addressed (Sections 5)

What a Club Does Not Do

• Diagnose, counsel, or run therapeutic conversations
• Store clinical detail in club systems (see the platform-notes rule in Section 3)
• Promise confidentiality it can't keep — child-safety concerns carry mandatory reporting obligations that override discretion (Module 76)
• Handle an emergency internally — risk of immediate harm is 000, not a committee matter

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SECTION 2: NOTICING — INCLUDING WHAT THE PLATFORM SHOWS YOU

Behavioural Signs (Seen at Training and Games)

• Withdrawal from the group — arriving late, leaving straight after, skipping social events they used to attend
• Mood or temper changes out of character; flat affect; irritability with teammates
• Physical signs — noticeable weight change, persistent fatigue, playing through injuries recklessly
• Comments that hint at hopelessness, worthlessness, or being a burden — take these seriously every time

Platform Signals

The engagement data from Modules 77 and 109 doubles as a wellbeing lens:

• RSVP drift — same-day confirmations becoming chased-twice non-responses
• Sudden absence — an every-week player missing 2–3 weeks without explanation
• Social withdrawal online — a previously active Noticeboard participant going silent

Read these signals correctly: platform drift means check in with the person — it never means "the app says you're depressed." The data earns a conversation; the conversation is where you learn what's actually happening (often it's shift work or a new baby, and that's fine — the check-in still landed as care).

Injury and wellbeing travel together. A player facing months of rehab loses the game, the routine, and the social contact at once. Module 41's injury workflow should include deliberate social inclusion for long-term injured players — keep them on team Broadcasts, give them a match-day role, keep them in the group.

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SECTION 3: RESPONDING TO A CONCERN

The Check-In Conversation

For any adult member you're concerned about:

1. Private and unhurried — after training, not in front of the group; walking to the cars beats a formal sit-down
2. Name what you've seen, ask openly — "You've missed a few weeks and seemed flat before that. How are you going?" Observations, not conclusions
3. Listen more than you talk — you are not solving anything; you're showing the person they're seen
4. Ask what would help, and offer the referral — "Have you talked to anyone about this? Your GP is a good first step; there's also [Section 4's numbers]"
5. Follow up next week — the second check-in is what proves the first one was real

If the person discloses risk of harming themselves or someone else: this leaves check-in territory immediately. Immediate danger → 000. Serious but not immediate → stay with them while they call Lifeline (13 11 14) or their GP, and inform the club President confidentially. Do not carry this alone and do not keep it secret.

If the concern is about a child: different rules entirely — child-safety concerns follow the mandatory reporting pathway in Module 76, not this section. For general (non-safety) worries about a junior's mood, raise it with the parent per Module 87's individual-concern protocol: private, factual, early.

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The Platform-Notes Rule

Wellbeing information is health information — the most sensitive class of personal data (Module 33).

• Do not record mental-health detail, disclosures, or speculation in Admin Panel member notes
• Acceptable operational note: "Extended personal leave — expected back [month]; coach aware" — enough for selection and fee handling, nothing clinical
• Anything more sensitive lives in a confidential conversation between the coach, President, and (for juniors) the parent — not in a system other admins can read

Fee handling: a member stepping away for personal reasons should trigger the same options as any hardship — pause, waiver, or plan (Module 68). Chasing aging fees from someone in crisis is both cruel and futile; the Treasurer should be told "pause this member's chasing" without being told why.

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SECTION 4: REFERRAL PATHWAYS

Keep this list printed in the clubrooms and saved in the committee Drive:

Training worth doing: Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) courses are widely available, often subsidised through state sport programs, and one accredited person per club changes what the club can handle confidently. National-body programs (e.g., AFL's Tackle Your Feelings and equivalents in other codes) offer free sport-specific training — check your code.

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SECTION 5: BUILDING THE PROTECTIVE CULTURE

Belonging by Default

The strongest wellbeing intervention a club makes is being genuinely hard to fall out of. Most of the machinery already exists in this library:

• Every new member gets connected — welcome workflow (Module 65) and a named person who knows them within a fortnight
• Non-playing pathways — injured, retired, or non-selected members keep roles: team manager, scorer, junior mentor (Modules 85, 99)
• The disengagement window is worked — Module 77's 3–6 week check-in is a wellbeing tool wearing a retention costume; the message is "we noticed you were gone," which is sometimes the only place a person hears it
• Fines and banter stay on the right side — the Fines module (Modules 11, 53) builds culture until it targets the same person repeatedly or touches anything personal; admins remove fines that cross the line and have the quiet word
• Noticeboard tone is protective — celebrate effort and contribution, not only wins; the screenshot test from Module 86 applies to internal banter too

Wellbeing Content on the Noticeboard

Two or three posts a season, normalising the topic without lecturing:

"R U OK? Day this Thursday. The best thing about a club is that someone notices when you're not around. If someone's crossed your mind reading this — send them a message today. And if you're the one struggling: Lifeline 13 11 14, Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636, or grab any of the committee for a chat, any time."

Pin the referral list post at season start. Repost around R U OK? Day (September) and Mental Health Month (October) — both sit conveniently near finals and end-of-season, when dropped routines hit members hardest.

End of season is a known risk window. The structure, exercise, and contact that sport provides all stop at once. The off-season social calendar (Module 74) and keeping the Noticeboard alive between seasons aren't just engagement tactics — they're the club still existing for people who need it to.

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VISUAL: Concern-to-Response Flow

SOMETHING'S CHANGED
(behaviour at training · RSVP drift · sudden absence · comments)
 │
 ▼
Is anyone in immediate danger? ──yes──► 000. Now.
 │ no
 ▼
Is it about a child (safety)? ──yes──► Module 76 mandatory
 │ no reporting pathway
 ▼
PRIVATE CHECK-IN (coach or trusted person)
 name what you saw · ask · listen · offer referral
 │
 ┌────┴──────────────┐
 ▼ ▼
"I'm fine" (and Struggling
 seems it) │
 │ ├─ Refer: GP / Lifeline / Beyond Blue
 ▼ ├─ Practical: pause fee chasing (no
Follow up │ diagnosis shared), keep them included
next week ├─ Disclosed risk → don't carry alone:
anyway │ President informed confidentially
 ▼
 FOLLOW UP — the second
 check-in is the real one

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TOOLTIPS & HINTS

• Notice → ask → refer → follow up — the whole club role in four verbs; no diagnosing anywhere in it
• Platform drift earns a conversation, never a conclusion — RSVP data tells you who to check on, not what's wrong
• Nothing clinical in member notes — "extended personal leave, coach aware" is the ceiling
• Pause fee chasing without explaining why — the Treasurer needs the instruction, not the story
• 000 / Lifeline 13 11 14 / Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 — the three numbers every committee member should know cold
• The second check-in is the one that counts — follow-up a week later proves it wasn't a formality

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FAQ

Q: I'm worried about a player but I barely know them. Should I still say something? A: Route it through relationship: tell their coach, their regular teammate, or whoever at the club knows them best, and let that person check in. The right words from the right person beat perfect words from a stranger. What you shouldn't do is nothing.

Q: A member disclosed something serious to me and asked me to tell no one. Am I bound by that? A: For an adult at no risk of harm — respect it, keep checking in, keep offering referral. If there's risk to themselves or others, safety overrides the promise: tell them you care too much to keep this one, and involve the President and professional support. For anything involving a child's safety, you have no discretion at all — Module 76's mandatory pathway applies.

Q: Should the club run a formal wellbeing program? A: Start smaller: one MHFA-accredited person, the referral list pinned and printed, two Noticeboard posts a year, and the check-in culture in this module. National-body programs (headspace partnerships, code-specific programs like Tackle Your Feelings) are the step up when there's appetite — they come with materials and support so volunteers aren't inventing it.

Q: Does any of this change our insurance or legal position? A: Acting reasonably — noticing, referring, following your documented processes — is exactly what a duty of care asks of a volunteer organisation. What creates exposure is the opposite: ignoring clear warning signs, or having volunteers attempt counselling they aren't qualified for. Refer early, record only operational facts, and follow Module 76 for anything incident-shaped.

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COMMON MISTAKES

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SHORT ONBOARDING SCRIPT

"The club's wellbeing role is four verbs: notice, ask, refer, follow up — never diagnose. You'll notice through what you see at training, and sometimes through the platform: RSVP drift, sudden absence, a talkative member gone quiet online. That data earns a private check-in — name what you've seen, ask how they're going, listen, and offer the referral list: GP first, Lifeline 13 11 14, Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636, 000 if anyone's in immediate danger. Follow up a week later — the second conversation is the one that proves you meant it. Keep clinical detail out of member notes, pause fee chasing for anyone in crisis without broadcasting why, and remember the club's best intervention is structural: a club that's genuinely hard to fall out of."

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MICRO-TRAINING QUICK TIPS

• Club role: notice → ask → refer → follow up. Not: diagnose, counsel, promise secrecy you can't keep
• Immediate danger = 000; child safety = Module 76 pathway, no discretion
• Platform signals (RSVP drift, absence, online silence) = prompt to check in, nothing more
• Check-in: private, observations not conclusions, listen, offer referrals, follow up in a week
• Referrals: GP · Lifeline 13 11 14 · Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 · Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 · 13YARN 13 92 76
• Member notes: "extended personal leave" max — no clinical detail ever
• Crisis = pause fee chasing; Treasurer gets the instruction, not the story
• One MHFA-trained person per club changes everything; end-of-season is the risk window

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Training Module 110 | See also: 76 Incident Reporting & Duty of Care · 77 Managing Inactive & Lapsed Members · 41 Injury Management · 65 New Member Welcome · 85 Volunteer Recognition & Club Culture · 33 Data Privacy